When disaster comes calling Just when you thought you were going to be married This month I have had two calls from distressed and panicked brides who discovered they were unable to have their legal ceremony on the day they had picked. Venue is booked. Registrar is booked, Photographer, catering, bands - everything is booked and people are flying in from different countries to be there to celebrate on a specific date. Then out of the blue, the unexpected happens and suddenly all the carefully thought out plans are in disarray. While some things might mean that you do have to abandon plans and cope with the costing implications, love can find a way around others. Here are my thoughts on the subject from experience so far! Stop! Think! What exactly has gone wrong? Try to take out the rising panic and focus on what you are being told. For most scenarios it will not mean abandoning the actual day, but it will mean reframing how you look at it Can you keep most things in place? The la...